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- MONTESSORI EDUCATION TURNS KIDS ON TO LEARNING (click HERE)
- (A-41) UNRESTRICTED TV VIEWING HARMS OUR CHILDREN (click HERE)
- (A-40) SMALLER CLASSROOM SIZE BENEFITS ALL, ESPECIALLY LOW-INCOME BLACK STUDENTS (click HERE)
- (A-39) WRITE A PERSONAL MISSION STATMENT WITH YOUR THOUGHTS IN MIND! (click HERE)
- (A-38) WHEN MIDLIFE CRISIS COLLIDES WITH MALE MENOPAUSE (click HERE)
- (A-37) ADHD DIAGNOSIS AT AGE 4 (click HERE)
- (A-36) LET THE HOMEWORK WARS BEGIN! (click HERE)
- (A-35) DOES YOUR CHILD SUFFER FROM NATURE DEFICIT DISORDER? (click HERE)
- (A-34) CHILDHOOD TEACHINGS CARRY INTO ADULTHOOD (click HERE)
- (A-32) FAMILY "BLACK SHEEP" IS UNIQUE CHAMPION! (click HERE)
- (A-31) FAMILIES WITH HANDICAPPED KIDS FACE MANY HURDLES (click HERE)
- (A-30) NEW CONCEPT MAKES 4-YEAR COLLEGE DEGREE AFFORDABLE & HIGH QUALITY (click HERE)
- (A-29)MONTESSORI LEARNING MAKES LEARNING FUN (click HERE)
- (A-28) 51 EXCELLENT FREE WEBSITES TO TEACH YOUNG CHILDREN ACADEMIC SKILLS (click HERE)
- (A-27) JOB PROMOTION VS BALANCING WORK AND LIFE (click HERE)
- (A-26) TEENS WORKING AFTER SCHOOL: GOOD OR BAD IDEA? (click HERE)
- (A-25) MANY GRANDPARENTS PROVIDE THAT SPECIAL BOND...FROM AFAR (click HERE)
- (A-24) TEACH THE ALPHABET THE OLD FASHIONED WAY (click HERE)
- (A-23) SHED YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS (click HERE)
- (A-22) ENCOURAGING SHY CHILDREN TO MAKE FRIENDS (click HERE)
- (A-21) A NEW TWIST IN SCHOOL VIOLENCE (click HERE)
- (A-20) CHILDREN "LOCKED INTO" SEEKING UNDUE ATTENTION (click HERE)
- (A-19) OUR CHILDREN ARE GROWING UP TOO FAST! (click HERE)
- (A-18) POSITIVE HOME ATMOSPHERE CAN BOLSTER CHILD'S SELF- ESTEEM (cLick HERE)
- (A-17) TERRIBLE TWO'S CAN BE TERRIBLE, IN DEED! (click HERE)
- (A-16) VOLUNTEER AT YOUR CHILD'S SCHOOL (click HERE)
- (A-15) BABY STEPS APPROACH BEST TO QUIT BAD HABITS (click HERE)
- (A-14) SOME "FRIENDSHIPS" SHOULD BE TERMINATED (click HERE)
- (A-13) IS YOUR TEEN A BINGE DRINKER? (click HERE)
- (A-12) JOB PROMOTIONS ELUDE MANY ADULT PROBLEM READERS (click HERE)
- (A-11) TEEN LOW SELF-ESTEEM COULD HAVE LIFE-LONG CONSEQUENCES (click HERE)
- (A-9) UNDIAGNOSED ADULT ADHD LEADS TO FRUSTRATION (click HERE)
- (A-8) FREELANCE WRITING CAN BE GOOD AT-HOME BUSINESS (click HERE)
- (A-7) CHILDREN FEEL THE RECESSION, TOO (click HERE)
- (A-6) PRETTY POISONS SHOULD CONCERN PARENTS (click HERE)
- (A-5) TOO MUCH TV HARMS CHILDREN (click HERE)
- (A-4) PARENTS SHOULD WORRY ABOUT MERCURY TOXIN (click HERE)
- (A-3) SHOULD HIGH SCHOOLS HAVE LATER STARTING TIMES? (click HERE)
- (A-2) DEVELOPMENTALLY DELAYED CHILDREN NEED POSITIVE PARENTS (click HERE)
- (A-1) POWERFUL DADS READ BEDTIME STORIES & KISS "OUCHIES" (click HERE)
- (Z) DOESPERFECTIONISTIC PARENTING MORE HARM THAN GOOD (click HERE)
- (Y) CHILDREN NEED UNCONDITIONAL LOVE (click HERE)
- (X) GOOD HABITS CAN BECOME AS ADDICTIVE AS
- BAD ONES (click HERE)
- (W) VIOLENCE-PRONE CHILDREN GROWING PROBLEM (click HERE)
- (V) TOP-QUALITY PRESCHOOL EDUCATIONAL SITES ONLINE FREE OF CHARGE (click HERE)
- (U) OLDER FIRST TIME FATHERS HAVE AN ADVANTAGE (click HERE)
- (T) NEGATIVE THOUGHTS- REBEL AGAINST THEM! (click HERE)
(S) HAPPY PEOPLE BECOME WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT (click HERE)
- (R) LEARNING AID PRODUCTS (click HERE)
- (Q) TEEN SPENDING HABITS (click HERE)
- (P) ADVICE FOR DISCOURAGED SALESPERSONS (click HERE)
- (O) LEFT-HANDED CHILDREN HAVE THEIR SHARE OF TALENTS (click HERE)
(N) MEDICAL INPUT HELPS DIAGNOSE LEARNING DIFFICULTIES (click HERE)- (M) UNDERACHIEVING STUDENTS FRUSTRATE PARENTS (click HERE)
- (L) PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN FROM ENVIRONMENTAL TOXINS! NEW STUDY LINKS ADHD TO PESTICIDE (click HERE)
- (K) GRANDPARENTING FROM AFAR (click HERE)
- (J) IS YOUR CHILD BULLIED? (click HERE)
- (IX) GREAT CHILD-FRIENDLY WEBSITES! (click HERE)
- (I) BUSINESS OWNERS WANT TO DESTRESS THEIR LIVES (click HERE)
- (H) TAKING RISKS NECESSARY FOR GROWTH (click HERE)
- (G) LATCHKEY KIDS IN SINGLE PARENT HOMES ON RISE (click HERE)
- (F) NEW! CHILD GROWTH & DEVELOPMENT (click HERE)
- (E) NEW! 23 TELL-TALE SIGNS OF TEEN INVOLVEMENT IN THE DRUG SCENE (click HERE)
- (C) RESEARCH ON LETTER/NUMBER REVERSALS AND WRITING DIFFICULTIES (NOTE: There's no main posting, but scroll down the right margin for excellent videos, etc. under code "C")
- (B) UNLOCKING THE DOOR TO SUCCESSFUL "LATCHKEY KID" PARENTING (click HERE)
- (A) STRATEGIES FOR PARENTS TO TEACH KIDS ABOUT MONEY MANAGEMENT (click HERE)
- I BENEFITS OF LAUGHTER, STRESS REDUCTION & MANAGEMENT (click HERE)
- II. NATIONAL CHILDREN'S MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS DAY- MAY 7TH (click HERE)
- III. OVER-MEDICATED CHILDREN (click HERE)
- IV. ADULTS WITH DYSLEXIA (click HERE)
- V. SCHOOL HOMEWORK: THE EVERLASTING PARENT/CHILD BATTLEGROUND (click HERE)
- VI. ALCOHOL ABUSE RESEARCH AND SELF-ASSESSMENT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH ALCOHOL (click HERE)
- VII. COLLEGE STUDENTS WITH LEARNING DIFFICULTIES (click HERE)
- VIII. KIDS AND GUNS (click HERE)
- IX. TOO MUCH TV VIEWING HARMFUL TO KIDS (click HERE)
MONTESSORI EDUCATION TURNS KIDS ON TO LEARNING
The geographical and philosophical roots of America's 5,000 Montessori schools originated in eastern Italy in 1870, when Maria Montessori was born. She grew up as an only child and proved to be a willful and intelligent young girl who defied society's subjugation of women at the time. At age 12, she insisted on attending a boy's technical math and science school. Not surprisingly, her powerful character empowered her to go against all odds and she graduated from the University of Rome to become the first woman medical doctor.
The Montessori methods and Montessori educational tools used today emerged from her scientific observations of mentally slow and poverty-stricken children at a care center in the San Lorenzo slums of Rome. She learned much from studying these children and engineered a nurturing environment enhanced with developmentally appropriate, specialized materials.
Here are four guiding principles which are distinctive to the Montessori way and which make Montessori education so child-friendly and unique:
Principle No. 1: Emphasize on the Process of learning, not the Product- "Education should no longer be mostly imparting knowledge, but must take a new path, seeking the release of human potentialities." Children possess an intrinsic love to learn, to become lifelong learners. Focusing on the product of learning like a high-stakes proficiency test or semester exam will stifle a child's spontaneous and natural urge to learn.
Dr Montessori would eschew today's practice of "teaching to the test," where the curriculum becomes a mile wide and inch deep experience. Instead, Montessori education spotlights the process of learning, rewarding a child's day-to-day efforts and improvements, no matter how small. Learning occurs in a supportive atmosphere of problem-solving, critical thinking, experiential learning, and ultimately, self-discovery.
Principle No. 2: Self-directed learning and self-discovery can happen in a "Prepared Environment" where the classroom, materials, and social climate are supportive. Maria Montessori once stated, "These words reveal the child's inner self: 'Help me do it alone'." Children are respected and permitted to work alone or in small groups at their own pace with materials they select from a menu of options. This freedom of choice is far from permitting children to "do their own thing," since it operates within a set of age-appropriate ground rules based on Dr Montessori beliefs, such as respect for each other and for the learning environment.
Principle No. 3: The teacher is a facilitator who inspires development of the "whole child"- physically, socially, emotionally, spiritually, and intellectually. Dr Montessori remarked decades ago, "We must observe the needs of a child...and respond to them with meaningful learning experiences." That's why Montessori teachers are fully trained to anticipate, recognize and respond to "sensitive periods" where children make great intuitive leaps and certain types of learning undergo a sudden surge in eagerness and intensity. The teacher "strikes while the iron is hot," directing the children toward materials that fulfill their developmental needs.
Learning is based on individual developmental characteristics and needs, not on chronological age. The Montessori way respects the child as a unique person with an individual pattern and timing of growth and concedes that each child carries his own internal, developmental alarm clock. Different levels of ability, development and learning styles are expected, accepted, and used to design the curriculum.
Children in multi-age and multi-grade Montessori classrooms move at their own pace. It would be foolish to establish a set age or grade cut-off date for a child to ride a bike. Likewise, Montessori classrooms do not dictate that all children automatically learn how to read simply because they've made 6 orbits around the sun. Some read by age 7, others may need more exposure to Montessori literacy experiences to learn to read by age 8 or 9.
The teachers receive extensive training, personalized for each of four distinct age spans: infant and toddler, 3-6, 6-9, and 9-12. Children journey through these four developmental age periods in an orderly, sequential and predictable manner - but at varying rates. Montessori teachers are sensitized to the fact that kids learn best when the time is ripe- not school time, but their own. They always listen for a child's inner clock to chime.
Principle No. 4: Dr Montessori sensed that ingenious developmental materials play a critical role in guiding children through each "sensitive period" and in sustaining a gratifying learning environment. I'll never forget witnessing a multi-handicapped child mainstreamed into a regular public school kindergarten enhance her visual-motor and self-care skills, thanks to the Montessori Dressing Frames. The child's fleeting attention span transformed into intense, sustained concentration as she experimented with snapping buckles, fastening large buttons, tying shoe laces, closing up zippers, and bow-tying.
Dr Montessori, as physician and educator, learned the kind of things that aroused children's natural curiosity and which they faithfully went back to.
The resources in a Montessori classroom are unique in that they are multi-sensory, sequentially increase in complexity, and are self-correcting. These characteristics smooth the process of learning from the concrete world of touch to understanding abstract ideas. For example, a young child eagerly playing with Montessori Golden Beads, the Hundred Board, Stamp Game, Spindle Box, and solid wooden rods divided into units by color and length, intuitively builds a solid foundation critical to comprehending higher level math concepts. The play is fun, but not random.
The carefully sequenced activities build upon one another and learning advances naturally from the known to the unknown as the child grasps the concepts of number relationships, money, time, weights and measurements, and ultimately algebraic equations.
These four guiding principles, discovered by Maria Montessori over a century ago, realize that the ability for a child to learn is enhanced by the development of activities and stimuli (materials) which fully utilize the present state of his receptive mechanism. Today, the Montessori way continues to capitalize on the physiological and psychological readiness of each child. The ultimate goal is to never lose a child's freshness, curiosity and willingness to explore and experiment.
Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
Saturday, November 5, 2011
UNRESTRICTED TV VIEWING HARMS CHILDREN
Many parents I've counseled through the years are concerned about their children's TV viewing. They are concerned about the unrestricted TV viewing and the effect it has on them.
I tell them their concerns are justified. The typical American preschooler commits to 5,000 hours of TV watching before entering grammar school and averages 28.5 hours of TV viewing per week throughout childhood. I weighed these APA statistics against the weekly program hours which TV networks scheduled as educational programming for kids. CBS donated one hour, ABC 90 minutes, NBC 90 minutes, FOX 3 hours, and PBS 7 hours. Subtracting these “kid-friendly” weekly program amounts (from 28.5 child-viewing hours) leaves lots of weekly questionable TV exposure remaining on each network.
Throughout grammar school, children witness 8,000 TV murders and 100,000 violent incidents, becoming spectators to more violence in one month than the Romans saw in the Coliseum during the reign of Nero. In this context, I appreciate Thomas Jefferson’ remark- “Men’s sentiments are known not only by what they receive, but also by what they reject.” Would he have supported censorship?
The harmful effect of TV becomes apparent when one questions what else could children be doing. As America’s youth watches TV more and more, they spend less and less time conversing with parents, reading, studying, playing with peers, enjoying nature and the out-of-doors, burning calories and keeping fit.
Today’s preschoolers will view over 350,000 TV commercials before finishing high school. Each ad throws an underlying pitch to vanity, greed, and competitiveness in order to create a desire for something they don’t need. They view their favorite cartoon characters peddling toys or a child surrounded by admiring “friends” because of a newly bought plaything…only to discover the toy isn’t as fast, big or attention-getting as the masterpiece fabricated on TV.
A insightful man once said, “Forming children‘s TV habits sometimes means to simply turn off the TV and not let it become an electronic baby sitter that surrenders the parents role of becoming primary educator of their children.” He was Pope John Paul II.
Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
I tell them their concerns are justified. The typical American preschooler commits to 5,000 hours of TV watching before entering grammar school and averages 28.5 hours of TV viewing per week throughout childhood. I weighed these APA statistics against the weekly program hours which TV networks scheduled as educational programming for kids. CBS donated one hour, ABC 90 minutes, NBC 90 minutes, FOX 3 hours, and PBS 7 hours. Subtracting these “kid-friendly” weekly program amounts (from 28.5 child-viewing hours) leaves lots of weekly questionable TV exposure remaining on each network.
Throughout grammar school, children witness 8,000 TV murders and 100,000 violent incidents, becoming spectators to more violence in one month than the Romans saw in the Coliseum during the reign of Nero. In this context, I appreciate Thomas Jefferson’ remark- “Men’s sentiments are known not only by what they receive, but also by what they reject.” Would he have supported censorship?The harmful effect of TV becomes apparent when one questions what else could children be doing. As America’s youth watches TV more and more, they spend less and less time conversing with parents, reading, studying, playing with peers, enjoying nature and the out-of-doors, burning calories and keeping fit.
Today’s preschoolers will view over 350,000 TV commercials before finishing high school. Each ad throws an underlying pitch to vanity, greed, and competitiveness in order to create a desire for something they don’t need. They view their favorite cartoon characters peddling toys or a child surrounded by admiring “friends” because of a newly bought plaything…only to discover the toy isn’t as fast, big or attention-getting as the masterpiece fabricated on TV.
A insightful man once said, “Forming children‘s TV habits sometimes means to simply turn off the TV and not let it become an electronic baby sitter that surrenders the parents role of becoming primary educator of their children.” He was Pope John Paul II.
Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
Friday, November 4, 2011
SMALLER CLASSROOM SIZE BENEFITS ALL, ESPECIALLY LOW-INCOME BLACK STUDENTS
Common sense tells us that a child’s competent teacher could spend more minutes per day with each student, individually, with a smaller classroom size. With an aide, the individual attention increases even more. Yes, I’m in favor of fewer children and more aides in our classrooms. Excuse me whilst I duck! Unfortunately, many schools across the U.S. are cutting back on aides to save money.
Today’s elementary school classrooms are chock-full of kids, but cramped for sufficient space and ample time. I've always said that space and time are luxuries items once a school building has too many children attending it! School officials try to make due with the dwindling assets they have at their disposal. I wish I could wave a magic wand and restore to life President Kennedy’s dictate that we place Americans on the moon or resurrect President Eisenhower’s command to construct a colossal interstate highway system. I wish for resolute leaders to sway, not be molded by, irresolute polls so that every K-6th grade classroom in America becomes the most tantalizing and enlightening place for kids to come to.
However, parents should be most concerned about class sizes in K -3rd grades. Research, Interestingly, research shows small class size in low-income schools in Wisconsin that African American kids who attended predominantly African American schools get a bigger boost from small class size than did white kids. In Tennessee, on average, black students in small classes ended third grade with academic achievement that was 7 to 10 percentage points higher than black students who attended the large classes. White students in small classes were only 3 to 5 percentage points ahead of white students from those larger classes.
I believe people value children as much as paved interstate highways and moon shots, but Ohio will accumulate a $7.3 billion deficit in several years. Eventually, we’ll provide all children with uncrowded classrooms, but not someday soon. I wish I had a magic wand.
Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
Thursday, October 27, 2011
WRITE A PERSONAL MISSION STATEMENT WITH YOUR THOUGHTS IN MIND!
Exercise: Sit & Don’t Think! Sit in a chair and relax. Close your eyes and spend 10 minutes breathing gently and not thinking about anything. Guess what? Thoughts will begin surfacing from your subconscious into your consciousness. You, or anyone else, cannot stop the thought process.
We are habitually thinking creatures! Researchers estimate the average person thinks 10,000If we are continuously thinking, contemplating, and reflecting about things in an unintentional and involuntary way, how much power do we have to think about things in a more deliberate and planned manner?
Pay attention to what comes to your mind while waking up, brushing your teeth, eating, working, walking, and while performing the myriad of daily, mundane tasks. How many of your thoughts were negative? Positive? What did the silent language, the internal thoughts in your mind say? There’s nothing wrong with thinking negatively now and then, but if your internal dialogue donates an inordinate amount of time to negative thoughts, even a glass of Chateau Mouton Rothschild, 1945, a $220 bottle of Johnnie Walker blue, or a Prozac & Paxil high-ball won't save you. Unfortunately, many who never came to realize the power of positive thoughts made Johnnie Walker their best friend.
A great personal mission statement will only come through with positive, not negative, thinking. Keep thinking about the 10,000 thoughts that pass through your mind each day. How unpleasant it would be for you to confront your daily demands with harmful, pessimistic, and just plain unproductive ones.
Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
Monday, October 24, 2011
WHEN MIDLIFE CRISIS COLLIDES WITH MALE MENOPAUSE- 6 CAVEATS
Instead of vaulting out of bed to “seize the day”, you stretch a bit and flounder until another body part becomes operational. Then, you sit behind a grand desk at a job position you exhausted an epoch of sweat to arrive at, only to feel boredom and dislike for your career. Peggy Lee’s 1970 hit song “Is that all there is?” takes on a whole new meaning.
Enter male menopause or a drop in the male hormone testosterone and some peculiar behaviors arise. I offer 6 caveats:
Caveat 1- Don’t become a macho guy. You know, the inflexible guy who notices middle age in his wife before himself and becomes champion of “happy hour” at the local pub? While your middle-aged wife gets hot flashes, you mutate into a “buck rabbit”, prowling for youthful women with soaring estrogen levels to compensate for your plummeting testosterone level. Don’t deny your midlife crisis, dump the male macho poppycock and quit trying to age as disgracefully as possible…less you become a disgrace.
Caveat 2- Accept the ticking biological time clock, your fading “manliness”, the passing of youth and the imminence of old age. Don’t get defensive about the changes- if your wife thinks you made a wrong turn and that you might be lost while driving, don’t fake it and pretend that you know exactly where you are. Turn to her and say, “Well, how ‘bout that. You’re right, honey. I’m going to stop and ask for directions.” Well, maybe that’s asking for too much…but you know what I mean.
Caveat 3- Learn a lesson from women. After all, if Eve missed the rib-off, none of you would This leads to Caveat 4- Economics. Joining a male midlife crisis support group is more economical than buying a plush Harley Davidson and trying to impress young women while wearing a baseball cap to cover your baldness and gulping down Viagra at $15 a pill. Accept the weight gain, lower sex drive, erectile dysfunction, muscle loss, hair loss, memory loss, and the need to get up throughout the night to urinate. You guys fork out over $1 billion annually to battle receding hairlines while Pfizer spends $425 million annually pushing Viagra, Levitra and Cialis into your already fragile psyches. They know that a third of you in your 50‘s and half of you in your 60‘s suffer from erectile dysfunction.
Caveat 5- Stay positive during your social, hormonal, and chemical transformations. At least you won’t accumulate cellulite and, heck, I think every notch your libido drops, your IQ raises by 10 points. Your manhood ain’t gone, brother…just reduced a bit! Your deep, male voice won’t disappear, nor will you get hooked on watching daytime soaps or ordering stuff from the Home Shopping Network.
Lastly, Caveat 6- Tune out the “Culture of Youth” that permeates America. When you’re watching the last fortress of midlife-manliness, a national football league game, you’ll never witness a beer commercial featuring a balding guy with a beer belly. You‘ll see a bunch of “flat-bellied” kids in their twenties partying with girls young enough to be your grandchild. Ignore them.
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Monday, October 17, 2011
ADHD DIAGNOSIS AT AGE 4

Family Journal takes issue with the new ADHD Diagnosis recommendation by the New American Academy of Pediatrics. Their treatment guidelines for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder say ADHD can be diagnosed in children as early as age four, and that Ritalin and similar drugs are an appropriate treatment even for those youngest kids with persistent symptoms when behavioral-management strategies don’t work. Many ADHD medications are only approved by the FDA for kids aged six and up, but physicians can use them off-label if they wish.
Family Journal believes many caveats should be considered when diagnosing ADHD in such Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
Friday, October 14, 2011
LET THE HOMEWORK WARS BEGIN!
Please take the short Homework Poll.
School's begun...and so have the homework wars! Many parents fret because their children's grades plummet. Others complain how their children seem to “forget” to bring assignments home, take forever to begin working on them, and hand in messy and incomplete work unless they stand over them. For many pointers on how to prevent this from happening, read: SCHOOL HOMEWORK- THE EVERLASTING PARENT/CHILD BATTLEGROUND
Yes, welcome to the universal parent-child battle ground! Parents and educators have challenged the value of homework since the early 1900’s, but whenever the amount of homework decreased, grades and test scores plummeted.
Keep encouraging your daughter to do her homework…and to do it “smarter.” Your efforts will enrich the basic skills she is learning in class, insure her state-decreed graduation test passage, and ultimately determine how far she goes in life. It seems she is floundering academically not because she can’t master the material, but because she is disorganized. So, organize and “set her up for success” by scheduling an agreeable, but specific, “study time”. Fashion an uncluttered, quiet and well-lit “study place”; furnish her with a pocket notebook to record assignments and discuss with her that finding answers to homework problems is her responsibility, and that you will offer guidance only as needed. Determine if her homework is “child-friendly” and crafted with a qualitative, not quantitative, purpose; is planned as carefully as the classroom instructions; and is not only graded when turned in but occasionally glamorized with teacher comments honoring improvement as well as perfection.
Try “bibliotherapy” by reading and discussing children’s books with her that describe study hassles. I recommend “Mitch and Amy” by Beverly Bunn Cleary (1967), a story about twin 4th graders who solved their school difficulties (ages 9-11). Another proven resorce: “Winning the homework war” by F. Levine and K. Anesko (1987)
Lastly, pull out the ultimate combat weapon to terminate the homework war: “catch her being good” and sneak into her “study place” armed with a snack, a hug and a word of encouragement.

Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
Saturday, October 8, 2011
DOES YOUR CHILD SUFFER FROM NATURE DEFICIT DISORDER?
4 GREAT RESOURCES TO COMBAT NDD
The book, first published in 2005 and now reaching the international market, has provided food for thought in support of more ecological education. The book is aimed at parents, teachers, city planners, architects, politicians and business owners. Louv argues that the bond between children and nature has been severed.
He subtitled his book Saving Our Children From Nature Deficit Disorder, arguing that a number of physical and mental problems that children have are rooted in their lack of contact with nature.
Louv used studies and conducted interviews with educators and scientists to reach his conclusions. He links the high number of overweight children in the US and the frequency of attention deficit/hyperactivity syndrome to the lack of contact with nature. Louv places a lot of faith in the healing power of nature through experiencing it with all one's senses under an open sky.Based on his own experience, Louv has placed the bar high. He recommends children build tree houses, stay in cabins and find ways to observe wild animals in their environment. These ideas are hard to fulfill in a city, but the author suggest a number of possibilities for city children to have contact with nature.
For little children, a few trees make up a forest and a puddle can offer a window into a natural habitat. Lift a stone to find the ground teeming with bugs or observe the life of squirrels in city parks, Louv suggests. He also recommends that parents have their children work in the garden, go on hikes to places that are seldom visited or go on hikes at night. Children should have fun discovering nature and allow themselves to be amazed by it and respect it.
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From Jeanne Hamming of Scientific American Magazine:
"Unstructured outdoor play was standard for me as a hyperactive child growing up in the rural Midwest. I fondly recall digging forts, climbing trees and catching frogs without concern for kidnappers or West Nile virus. According to newspaper columnist and child advocate Richard Louv, such carefree days are gone for America’s youth. Boys and girls now live a "denatured childhood," Louv writes in Last Child in the Woods. He cites multiple causes for why children spend less time outdoors and why they have less access to nature: our growing addiction to electronic media, the relinquishment of green spaces to development, parents’ exaggerated fears of natural and human predators, and the threat of lawsuits and vandalism that has prompted community officials to forbid access to their land.
Drawing on personal experience and the perspectives of urban planners, educators, naturalists and psychologists, Louv links children’s alienation from nature to attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, stress, depression and anxiety disorders, not to mention childhood obesity. The connections seem tenuous at times, but it is hard not to agree with him based on the acres of anecdotal evidence that he presents. According to Louv, the replacement of open meadows, woods and wetlands by manicured lawns, golf courses and housing developments has led children away from the natural world. What little time they spend outside is on designer playgrounds or fenced yards and is structured, safe and isolating. Such antiseptic spaces provide little opportunity for exploration, imagination or peaceful contemplation. Louv’s idea is not new.
Theodore Roosevelt saw a prophylactic dose of nature as a counter to mounting urban malaise in the early 20th century, and others since have expanded on the theme. What Louv adds is a focus on the restorative qualities of nature for children. He recommends that we reacquaint our children and ourselves with nature through hiking, fishing, bird-watching and disorganized, creative play. By doing so, he argues, we may lessen the frequency and severity of emotional and mental ailments and come to recognize the importance of preserving nature. At times Louv seems to conflate physical activity (a game of freeze tag) with nature play (building a tree fort), and it is hard to know which benefits children most.
This confusion may be caused by a deficiency in our larger understanding of the role nature plays in a child’s development. At Louv’s prompting, perhaps we will see further inquiry into this matter. In the meantime, parents, educators, therapists and city officials can benefit from taking seriously Louv’s call for a "nature-child reunion."
Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
CHILDHOOD TEACHINGS CARRY INTO ADULTHOOD
I enjoyed being a facilitator in the "Step-Teen" series. That stands for Systematic Training In Effective Parenting- with Teens. One session was devoted to saving childhood from extinction, which I added into the regular outline. Because childhood has neither a past or a future, kids live in the present. This "here and now" interval of development occurs only once, so it's crucial for parents to give their children blissful experiences. Happy adults carry around cheerful childhood memories throughout their lives, wherever they go, well into old age. This seed is planted only in childhood.


Making our children's lives too materialistic is detrimental. We can give our children the most by giving them the least. Many parents have witnessed a climbing tree, empty cardboard box, tiny green worm, or lightning bug delight children more than a high-priced toy ever could.
Happy adults appreciate the free and natural things around them. This enjoyment is learned in childhood. Allowing our children's misbehaviour to go without consequences injures them. As a child, when my father redecorated my bedroom, it meant he built a bookshelf. Today, saying "Go to your room!" won't allow a child to think about his/her wrongdoings if the bedroom is "redecorated" with an air conditioner, color TV set hooked up to several hundred TV cable channels and games, stereo, Nintendo, Pokemon, and computer games. Happy adults comprehend the logical connection between making a poor choice and its negative consequences. This awareness is discovered in childhood.
We must insure our children receive the best education possible. Children who learn to read and write well in school will enjoy life more. Happy adults are intrinsically motivated to learn after their formal schooling has ended. This lifelong learning begins in childhood.

Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.

Making our children's lives too materialistic is detrimental. We can give our children the most by giving them the least. Many parents have witnessed a climbing tree, empty cardboard box, tiny green worm, or lightning bug delight children more than a high-priced toy ever could.
Happy adults appreciate the free and natural things around them. This enjoyment is learned in childhood. Allowing our children's misbehaviour to go without consequences injures them. As a child, when my father redecorated my bedroom, it meant he built a bookshelf. Today, saying "Go to your room!" won't allow a child to think about his/her wrongdoings if the bedroom is "redecorated" with an air conditioner, color TV set hooked up to several hundred TV cable channels and games, stereo, Nintendo, Pokemon, and computer games. Happy adults comprehend the logical connection between making a poor choice and its negative consequences. This awareness is discovered in childhood.
We must insure our children receive the best education possible. Children who learn to read and write well in school will enjoy life more. Happy adults are intrinsically motivated to learn after their formal schooling has ended. This lifelong learning begins in childhood.Yes, we carry much of our childhood with us. Acting young helps us stay young...I'm going outside to play.
Robert Morton, M.Ed., Ed.S. has retired from his positions of School Psychologist and adjunct professor in the School of Leadership & Policy Studies at Bowling Green State Univeristy. A portion of Ad sale revenue from this site is donated to Big Brothers/Big Sisters of America. Questions? Comment? Concerns about family, parenting, educational or personal concerns? Contact him on the secure Bpath Mail Form.
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